if you asked me over a year ago if I could be in an open relationship I’d say fuck no. But when you’re in a relationship and find yourself in love, in so much security and have crystal clear communication… you just… you realize openness and individual relationship with others is completely okay. I have my person. I’m in love with them. I have a whole ass home with them. And so much reassurance is present.

Just because you find yourself in a relationship with one person doesn’t mean all your natural human attractions stop.

Me and my partner are not polyamorous. We are not looking or remotely interested in bringing in a third. We simply have our own relations outside our own.